Of course retreats and conferences are no replacement for our regular Sunday and community group meetings, but there is something unique about setting aside time to go away that changes the dynamic from what we often consider routine in our weekly schedules.
A primary reason I love going to (and planning) events and conferences is the elevated sense of expectation. We have a lot invested by the time that first session begins. We invest our finances for registration, meals, and lodging. We invest our time putting aside other things to be there. We secure a sitter for the kids and pets and drive a couple hours all to be at this event.
I certainly trust that you will consider the messages you take in at the Couples Conference, the discussions you have with your spouse, and the time you are able to share with one another worth the investment as you drive back home. But allow me to make just a suggestion or two to help make the investment last beyond the weekend.
1. Let’s bring that sense of expectation out of the subconscious and into the forefront of our prayers and conversations. Let’s expect that God is going to use this time as a tangible blessing in our marriages and churches. Talk with your spouse about what you are looking forward to seeing God do and pray for one another and your marriage. Redeem the car ride to Williamsburg with meaningful relating.
2. Recognize that the time is going to fly by. It would be possible to be back in your front door in less than 24 hours from when you left. Let me encourage you if at all possible to linger a while. This is time to build and enjoy our relationships with the one God has joined us to and we have pledged our commitment to. Coming the day before or staying an extra night is highly recommended, but even if that isn’t feasible at least plan to add on a few hours before our after the conference to just be together.
As we prepare to go away, let us expect God to work. And let’s ask Him to work. But most of all let’s remember that we’re asking Him “who is able to do far more abundantly than all that we ask or think.” (Eph. 3:20)
-Aaron
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